Julia Louis-Dreyfus and Tobias Menzies in You Hurt My Feelings
Part of the series MoMA Contenders 2023

You Hurt My Feelings

Followed by a Q&A with director Nicole Holofcener and star Julia Louis-Dreyfus

From acclaimed filmmaker Nicole Holofcener comes a sharply observed comedy about a novelist whose long standing marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband give his honest reaction to her latest book. A film about trust, lies, and the things we say to the people we love most. Post-screening conversation moderated by Museum of Modern Art Associate Curator, Department of Film Sophie Cavoulacos.

You Hurt My Feelings. 2023. USA. Written and directed by Nicole Holofcener. With Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Tobias Menzies, Michaela Watkins. DCP. 93 min. Courtesy A24


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You Hurt My Feelings | Official Trailer
This film program is organized by Rajendra Roy, The Celeste Bartos Chief Curator of Film, and Sean Egan, Producer, Film Exhibitions and Special Projects, The Museum of Modern Art, New York.
The Hammer Museum's presentation is made possible by The Billy and Audrey L. Wilder Foundation.

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